Q:

I have been tested for almost all STDs multiple times. I have been going to the doctors for 5 months and have seen 4 different doctors. No one can tell me what is wrong with me. It is very painful for me to have sex. Me and my boyfriend wait until I am ready and we use lube. For the past 5 months every time we have had intercouse I experience the worst pain ever. I dont know what my problem could be considering it isnt an STD.

 

A:

It sounds as if you may be dealing with vaginismus, where you are having vaginal muscle spasm with intercourse.

Here is some information that may be helpful, and meeting with one of our women's practitioners may help to start the behavioral treatment that can be beneficial.

http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/001487.htm

in the mean time, it may be wisest to back off from intercourse temporarily and use other means to pleasure each other.  Continuing to have painful intercourse is difficult for both you and your partner.

~The Doc